Dating Advice: 4 Surprising Traits Women Will Love You For! By Emily Heart
Dating can be confusing for men. Should you focus on showing you’re a nice guy or aim to come across as and macho and strong?
Dating guides might encourage you to impress her with grand romantic gestures and unbounded admiration, but we know what women really want when dating, and it might surprise you! Here are the top four surprising traits which impress women when dating.
1. No grand gestures (just the smaller ones will do)
When we think of romance it can often conjure up images of grand gestures which will sweep a woman off her feet. While a giant bouquet of roses or an unexpected weekend in Paris are not to be sniffed at, you cannot buy a woman’s affection - it is the smaller gestures which will lead to approval.
Holding a door open for the person you are dating (in the right circumstances) shows good manners without being over the top. Try to emphasise your respect without making too much of a fuss – she will notice the little things and you will be able to keep up this behaviour over time (while too many mini-breaks could leave you bankrupt!)
2. An element of challenge
A lot of very good men fall down unnecessarily here with dating. Women love to be looked after to some extent, but don’t really need to have their every whim catered to by a man who quite obviously adores them from day one.
While treating a woman well is one thing, being an absolute pushover is never all that attractive, and this is the reason many ‘nice guys’ aren’t the ones who are the luckiest when it comes to dating. There is an element of ‘the thrill of the chase’ for both sexes, so bear this in mind and try not to put the woman you are dating on a pedestal straight away – let her impress you, too!
3. A stubborn streak
The woman you are dating might give the impression she wants you to change, but let her wrap you around her little finger and you could discover, changes made, that she’s lost interest after all. This is because most women, deep down, are a lot happier knowing their partner is a strong man who can speak up for himself.
If she does ask you to change, be very wary of doing it. That is, unless it’s a change you wanted to make anyway (like stopping smoking! That’s always a good idea). Try to stay true to yourself, while looking after her needs where you can, and she’ll respect you more for it.
4. Being unavailable
This does not equate to not calling back – that’s just rude! But a certain amount of unavailability can make for a longer lasting relationship. She might think she wants you to be around all the time but a little time apart can do wonders to keep the spark going between you.
If you aim to keep up your usual activities, such as meeting your friends and family or spending time on your hobbies, this should give enough down-time to your relationship to keep it burning hot when you’re together.
Are Overweight Men Attractive to Girls? By Chris Chew
Yes, I know that this article may offend some overweight men, but I have to say it anyway. If you are insulted by this article, then I offer my apologies, but do suggest that you get out of the denial mode. If you are a man with a protruding beer belly and is so obese that your neck is hidden in a clump of chin fat and you think that being fat is attractive to women, then you are living in a denial mode.
Yes, some women may be attracted to slightly chubby men, but most women are turned off sexually by overweight men. You may have read somewhere that girls are not attracted by sight. You know what? That is not entirely true.
Don't believe me? Pray, tell me why are there so many screaming girls when a handsome pop star or actor comes to town? Why do these good-looking men get so many fan mails from women declaring their undying love for them even when they have never met?
You see, instinctively a girl (of course are exceptions) is only sexually attracted to a man if she perceived him to have good genes that can be passed down to her offspring and at the same time, able to protect herself and her brood. So what do you think you will figure out in her subconscious mind if you are overweight and sporting a beer belly with dangling male boobs? A real turn off, isn't it?
Most likely, she will think that you are lazy, is not bothered with your own health and that you are more than likely a strong candidate for obesity related diseases such as heart attack and stroke, just to name two of many fat related diseases. If that is her perception of you, how do you think your chances will be if you are pitted against a healthy looking male for her attention?
So if you are overweight and wants to attract women, the first thing to do is to start losing weight now. What did you say? You have tried losing weight but without success and you are fated to stay this way? If that is your excuse, then why are you reading this article? Have you tried professional help? I don't mean just simply going to your doctor and getting some prescribed weight lost pills and hope for the best.
What I mean is that have you seek help from weight loss experts like fitness personal trainers or trawl the internet for good long lasting weight loss programs. If you think that by popping some pills or visiting some slimming salon can do the trick, then you are mistaken big time.
This is because the above are just temporary solutions and when the weight you have lost comes back to haunt you, will have to go back to your doctor for the pills (risking side effects) or back to the salon for expensive treatments again for the rest of your life.
In the case of engaging the help of a fitness trainer or a good weight loss program, you will learn how to lose weight and you will know what to do when the weight comes back. Talking about giving a man a fish, he eats a meal. Teaching a man how to fish, he eats a lifetime.
So guys, if you are fat and overweight and is wondering why you are not good at attracting girls, now you know better. So start losing weight now.
Since the beginning of time, in nearly every romance story, the hero gets the girl. The only problem is, I haven't seen many dragons lately, unless you count the alligators in the bayou near my house, and honestly they're not bothering anyone as a general rule. We all know courage is intimately bound up with winning a woman's heart, but the problem is either we don't know exactly how to be courageous, or the idea we have of courage is something that can't be practically demonstrated in front of a girl unless you're someone like a firefighter. And even in that case, there has to be a fire going on right then.
The truth is, courage is simpler than you think. Once you grasp its true nature, you will see that not only do opportunities for courage abound, but that it has been an intimate part of your life for a long time. Courage has the word couer as its root, the French word for heart. We all have times where we do something "heartily", where you really throw yourself into something. Whether its playing sports or playing video games, we have all habitually done some things heartily.
If you call to mind what it's like and observe it; it's a time where the transition between noticing something (the placement of the ball or hearing approaching zombies) and acting on it is smooth and fast. Your actions may not always pay off, but as long as you're really into what you're doing they pay off more often than not. And when you're playing really well, you know intuitively when to think and when to act so that you don't just rush around to no benefit, and you don't miss opportunities while you're standing and thinking. The exact same thing happens when dealing with women. When you hold back, when you don't let your spirit rise up and forward, she senses this, if even only on an animal level. But when you are not holding back, she notices this too. And if you're not even afraid where most other guys are, she notices that too.
The process is this: knowledge always comes first, then judgement, and then action. Knowledge, in some ways can't really be stopped. Your mind is powerful and is sensing gigantic amounts of information even when you're not consciously choosing to think about it. Judgement is when you decide what to focus on. Good judgement means respecting knowledge, and where you go wrong is bad judgement, when you ignore what you know. Action is the follow up.
Here is how bad judgement usually happens: You know you want to get married eventually. You know a certain girl interests you. And you know that being passive doesn't work. Bad judgement usually happens when you start ignoring these things. Good judgement dictates that you take action because nothing will ever really happen with a woman unless you take action. Then, you observe the result of your action. Either the girl wasn't interested, in which case you should probably stop doing that and try something else. Or she was interested, in which case you can file that away as a nugget that will probably work again in the future.
But typically, we don't follow our judgement and get solid real-world experience. We want to wait until we have a real feeling of certainty that she is interested. From my own experience, if that feeling ever arrives, it turns out to be false. Instead of simply acting and seeing the result, we wait and wait, anticipating that a positive result will come on its own without having to put ourselves on the line at all. This is the very opposite of courage.
This is why courage is a virtue. It is a muscle and exercising it becomes easier, but it always takes a little push at the start before your feelings line up with taking action. Just like on a rollercoaster, you never really feel like starting out until you have already gone over the first hill. Courage not only moves you toward your goal, but it also provides the benefit of making you feel stronger and better whenever you exercise it; however, all the benefits only come after you do it.
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